How To Make A Marriage Last?

Today's post is a special one as I’m celebrating 10 years of marriage with my beautiful wife. While it seems like time has gone by too fast, I’m extremely grateful for every moment of bliss I have. It's more than just a number; it's a bunch of memories, a few tears, tons of laughter, and a whole lot of love. As I take a trip down memory lane, I can't help but share some of the nuggets of wisdom I’ve picked up along the way.

How to make a marriage last?

 

1. The Patience Tango

Remember those early days when patience was in short supply, and misunderstandings were the norm? Well, we've learned that patience is not just a virtue; it's like the secret sauce that lets each of us grow—both on our own and together. When you actively listen to each other and not let your emotions get the best of you, you get the best of each other. 

 

2. Stormy Weather and Smooth Sailing

Life throws curveballs, and marriage is no different. From job changes to personal battles, we've weathered quite a few storms. What we found is that facing these challenges together not only makes us stronger but turns hurdles into chances for some serious growth. Turns out, those storms are just part of the adventure. It all depends on how you look at it, is this challenge a problem or a blessing?

 

3. Gratitude for the Little Stuff

Life gets hectic, right? It's easy to miss those tiny moments that make a marriage special—the morning coffee together, a surprise 'I love you' text. We've found out that being thankful for these everyday bits brings a whole lot of joy to the table. It’s the little things that make the biggest impacts.  

 

4. The Art of Give and Take

Marriage isn't about avoiding disagreements but becoming pros at compromise. Finding that sweet middle ground, where both of us feel heard and respected, has turned our relationship into a flexible, adaptable powerhouse. Knowing when to let go or when to hold your ground is a skill that develops over time. 

 

5. Always Getting to Know Each Other Again

People change, and so do relationships. What clicked at the beginning might need a little tweaking down the road. The trick? Keep rediscovering each other. Uncover new dreams, understand changing passions, and embrace the fact that we're all a work in progress. It's really a beautiful part of the relationships as you get to uncover things about your partner. 

What is the  Secret To A Happy Marriage?

A happy marriage is achieved when both partners are honest with each other, are grateful for what they have, and communicate often. It’s not difficult to know what you need to do, it’s difficult doing what you already know. 

So, here's to hitting the 'double digits' in our marriage! The lessons from this first decade have turned us into a couple that's not just madly in love but also crazy enriched by the whole journey. The threads of patience, shared experiences, compromise, and gratitude have woven a tapestry that's uniquely ours. Can't wait to see what the next chapters hold—may they be just as beautiful, and love-filled as the first ten years. 

Stay Blissful Be Joyful

 

 

 

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